Do you know why our ancestors lived longer life and enjoyed their lives to the fullest ?
It is because they had different perspectives of life. They lived simple and contented lives unlike what is happening in this modern era.
For example, when a man is old enough for marriage and can handle some farming tools, his father will ask him to look for a wife and will give him a land where he will be farming to feed his family.
The new wife never comes empty handed, her people will give her some properties and some cooking utensils as a settlement to start a family with the husband.
The new wife will not care about the net worth of the husband. She has no ulterior motives neither do she has any other agenda other than to build with the husband from the scratch.
Every morning, both will wake up early to the farm.
The husband will carry a hoe across his left shoulder while clenching cutlass in his right hand.
The wife followed him on the back with a basin and weeding knife balanced on her head.
This is how they will start farming, working hard together to build their new family. At a time, the woman will have her own personal farm where she cultivates some feminine crops while the husband will focus on the masculine crops and economic trees.
Can you see that no woman ever entered into marriage empty handed?
Can you see that every woman entered into marriage with the mindset of establishing a family and building with the husband with no high expectations and unnecessary pressure on the man?
Can you see that no man ever married a liability as a wife because only hard working women were recommended for marriage.
Even though she supported and worked hard to build the family with the man, she never disrespected him, she still see him as the head, the leader and the decision maker of the family.
No wonder they lived happy till the old age.
But now, have you ever wondered why there are more land ladies than landlords in this modern era? Have you wondered why many men are older than their ages? A man of 70yrs will look as if he is 100+.
It is because the modern vvomen coupled with the society have changed the narrative. They make it look as if vvomen are doing men favours for getting married to them.
Today, no woman wants to build with a man, no woman wants to suffer with a man, every woman wants an already made man.
They enter into the marriage empty handed after assessing your net worth, they see marriage as poverty alleviation program and an employment opportunities.
You will hear them say; "I can't suffer in my father's house, and suffer in my husband's house".
When you ask them; "what can you bring to the table?"
They will tell you that they are the table itself. Which means that they see their big boobs and protruded stomachs as the table.
Modern days women are smarter than men when considering whom to marry. They put their future first, they are not swayed by emotions.
They are more concerns on what they stand to gain and it is working for them.
The fact is that, marriage is a business, only women know this truth and they consolidate on this knowledge to ride on ignorant men who doesn't know what marriage is all about.
The marital laws, the courts and the society at large even make it easier for women to automatically become billionaires just for divorcing their billionaire husbands. Infact the top 5 richest women on earth got their wealth through divorce.
The whole things are designed to favour women. A woman can just wake up one day and decide to divorce her husband with flimsy excuses and the court will force the man to pay alimony, child supports and sometimes offer the 50% of his properties as a marriage settlement no wonder a lot of men go broke after divorce.
Men, we have lived in ignorance for long. It is time to change the narrative. It is time to start seeing marriage as a business and approach it with business mindset just like women do.
Men who are suffering in the marriage today are the men who were swayed by the emotions in the choice of their life partners. While the men who are enjoying their marriages today are the ones who approached marriage with business mindset.
Be futuristic when considering whom to marry, think on what you stand to gain from her financially. Can she contribute to your financial life? What skills do she posses? Is she a success enthusiast ?
All these need to be considered. Some men are already waking up to the reality. A business man can marry his sales girl because he realized that she possessed a special skill that can turn his business around and improve his financial life.
Stop getting married to liabilities, they will drag you down and make life miserable to you and still share from your hard earned wealth which will automatically uplift them while landing you to square one.
Approach marriage with business mindset and see how your financial life will improve.
