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Do not entertain half friends … Do not live half a life  and do not die a half death If you choose silence, then be silent When you speak, do so until you are finished Do not silence yourself to say something And do not speak to be silent If you accept, then express it bluntly Do not mask it If you refuse then be clear about it  for an ambiguous refusal is but a weak acceptance Do not accept half a solution Do not believe half truths Do not dream half a dream Do not fantasize about half hopes Half a drink will not quench your thirst Half a meal will not satiate your hunger Half the way will get you no where Half an idea will bear you no results Your other half is not the one you love It is you in another time yet in the same space It is you when you are not Half a life is a life you didn't live,  A word you have not said A smile you postponed  A love you have not had A friendship you did not know To reach and not arrive… Attend only to be absent What makes you a stra...

There’s nothing for me out there. I know you haven’t explored enough yet, you haven’t turned over enough rocks within. You’re still learning what you’re made of, digging and searching for everything you admire. So, go. Go find all the treasures of yourself. Scratch and claw your way through the muck, fall in and out of love a hundred times. Go break your heart wide open and feel the sting of giving up on your wildest dreams. There’s no shame in changing directions, just never settle, never wed the status quo. I will not trail you, however. I will not club anyone over the head with my heart. I know love to be a timing thing, and we’re just two wheels who won’t always fit together. The journey you are on, I am also on. I’m just a little further along. I’ll wait here… And when you find what it is you’re looking for in yourself, bring it to me please, so I can show you how I found those things in you even before you could. And maybe then    the timing will be right for us to exist...

1. SELF LOVE Once a woman gets to love herself, an inner glow emanates from within and is reflected on her smile, eyes, facial expression, mannerisms and tone 2. FORGIVENESS Bitterness darkens the soul but forgiveness makes her shine. She has refused to give power to those who hurt her in the past 3. AWARENESS OF HER PURPOSE Once she knows her reason for existence, she radiates. Something about a woman knowing she is not a mistake but a complex, beautiful creation with a purpose makes her confidently shine  4. PROGRESS Progress in her life makes her shine. Even though she may not achieve all her goals at the set date; a woman glows different when she sees herself making progress in any area of her life.. Be it her career, finances, relationship with God, motherhood, business, romantic relationship, property acquisition, studies. This is why it is important for a woman to give herself success stories  5. THE LOVE OF HER MAN A loved up woman is easy to tell, she can't help but s...

Once, a man returned from work and found his wife cooking. She gave him a sweet loving kiss. They shared happy moments while preparing dinner together. While they were at the dinner table, the woman's cell received a message from her friend who wished her good night. The husband saw the message and assumed it was from a man. He got so upset left the dinner table without talking to his wife and went to bed without eating dinner. The woman looked at her husband with disbelief and wondered how he could be bothered by a simple message? She said to herself "this is ridiculous and I will not go after him.. He is not a kid." The woman had her meal and went to bed. She did not speak to the husband and neither did the husband speak to her.. Instead both of them moved to the furthest corner of the bed and turned their back on each other. Their night was very miserable.  At midnight, the wife got a fever and started sweating profusely. She started having difficulties wit...

1. Life doesn't wait for you to be okay. Get up everyday and keep pushing through. 2. Never force anyone to choose you. You'll learn the art to spend time alone 3. Master your emotions. A calm mind can handle any situation. 4. To avoid disappointment, you need to take people for who they're not for what you want them to be. 5. Everyone will show you who they're, just give them time 6. You're at peace with yourself when you mind your own business. 7. Ensure you take good care of yourself, if anything happens to you, the world will move on. 8. Nobody cares, work hard to get better everyday. 9. If you don't work to build your own dream, someone will hire you and give you a purpose. 10. Free yourself from the society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing. 11. 30 years is too long to sit in an office being told what to do. 12. You shouldn't frequently take advice from people who're not where you want to be in life. 13. Life's i...

A female is supposed to be a helper. In other words, a woman at the beginning was a woman who was designed by God and equipped by God to help a male fulfill the assignment that God put in his life to do(Vision). A woman is not the one who comes to destroy what the man's vision is. You don't want to marry a woman who comes to tell you how to run your life. You don't marry a man and dictates on how he is supposed to live. God said I will make for him a HELPER. Now a helper is not the one who runs the show. See, the reason marriages don't work is because we get a monster, a monster is any creature with two heads. A wise woman helps her to husband achieve....  A good woman studies her husband. She doesn't irritate him, she doesn't criticize his weaknesses and struggles. What a real woman does, she keep asking him questions. She tries to find out what his dream is, what his vision is, what his desire is... her goal is to study him! Sweetheart what are you going to do...

The seven principles for making marriage work. Now, whether you're in a relationship or not, these principles can truly transform the way you approach love and create a strong foundation for a lasting partnership. 1: Build a culture of appreciation.   It's all about expressing gratitude and acknowledging the little things your partner does. Remember, small gestures can have a big impact! 2: Nurture your friendship.  Friendship is the backbone of any successful marriage. Keep having fun together, laugh, and support each other's dreams. 3: Learn to manage conflicts effectively.  Conflict is inevitable, but how we handle it makes all the difference. Practice active listening, compromise, and always strive for understanding. 4:  Create shared meaning.  This means having shared goals, values, and traditions that you both believe in. It strengthens your connection and gives your relationship purpose. 5: Make each other feel important.   Show interest ...

1. Always keep your word - if you make a promise, keep it. 2. Respect women - treat them with dignity and respect. 3. Take care of your appearance - dress appropriately and maintain good hygiene. 4. Be honest - don't lie or deceive others. 5. Show respect for elders - listen to their advice and guidance. 6. Be loyal - stand by your friends and family. 7. Be responsible - take ownership of your actions and their consequences. 8. Be self-sufficient - learn to take care of yourself. 9. Learn to forgive - holding grudges only hurts you in the long run. 10. Be humble - don't brag or boast about your accomplishments. 11. Be patient - good things come to those who wait. 12. Don't be a bully - treat others with kindness and compassion. 13. Be a good listener - pay attention to what others are saying. 14. Be a good communicator - express yourself clearly and effectively. 15. Be confident - believe in yourself and your abilities. 16. Act with integrity - do the right thin...

1. Build a home earlier.  Be it rural home or urban home. Building a house at 50 is not an achievement. Don't get used to government houses. This comfort is so dangerous. Let all your family have good time in your house.   2. Go home.  Don't stick at work all the year. You are not the pillar of your department. If you drop dead today, you will be replaced immediately and operations will continue. Make your family a priority. 3. Don't chase promotions.  Master your skills and be excellent at what you do. If they want to promote you, that's fine if they don't, stay positive to your personal. development. 4. Avoid office or work gossip.  Avoid things that tarnish your name or reputation. Don't join the bandwagon that backbites your bosses and colleagues. Stay away from negative gatherings that have only people as their agenda. 5. Don't ever compete with your bosses.  You will burn your fingers. Don't compete with your colleagues, you will fry your bra...

Love is a strong feeling of affection  for another arising out of kinship or personal ties. Below are the important facts that gives you more understanding about love. 1.Talkative girls and silent boys make the best couples. 2.Cuddling Releases Natural Painkillers. 3.When Two Lovers Gaze At Each Others’ Eyes, Their Heart Rates Synchronize. 4.It only takes up to 4 minutes to decide whether you like someone or not. 5.Men fall in love faster than women. 6.It makes you more empathetic and in tune with your emotions. 7.Most women are attracted to men who possess a strong sense of humor as it indicates higher intelligence and honesty 8.If you hold hands with someone you love, it can help alleviate physical pain as well as stress and fear 9.Women's tears have been biologically proven to reduce testosterone levels and arousal in men. 10.When a man finds someone attractive, he may suck-in his gut, flex his muscles, and take postures that make him appear taller and stronger. 11.Thinking Of L...

1. FRIENDSHIP: Try to be your spouse best friend. No matter what happens, be a friend first, and a lover later. 2. TRUST: The key element to any relationship is trust, so before starting this beautiful journey with your spouse, learn to trust in all circumstances. 3. UNDERSTANDING: Try to figure out each other and work out on your differences. There are going to be many differences, but it’s mutual compromise and sacrifice which makes this relationship beautiful. 4. COMMUNICATION: Try to talk and convey your message to your spouse. Let your spouse know about how good/bad your day was along with reminding them how you feel for them. 5. HONESTY: Always speak the truth, never lie or hide things in fear that your spouse won’t understand.Give your spouse a chance to understand you. 6. FREEDOM: Give your spouse space and freedom to decide for themselves. Don’t take away the personal time of your spouse. The best is assured.

  WHAT IS A RELATIONSHIP? Many people do not know the meaning of relationship or read different meanings to that word.   A RELATIONSHIP is not about having a handsome boyfriend or having a beautiful girlfriend. It’s not about looking for a perfect person because there isn’t any perfect person on earth. It’s not about looking for a fair complexion or a rich person. Having a lot of money doesn’t mean that one has too much pure love. MONEY CAN’T BUY LOVE.   A relationship is about finding someone who respects you. Who cares about you in anyway he/she can afford. Who understands you. Who is proud of having you. Who appreciates you the way you are . Who loves you the way you are. Who is faithful to you. Who knows how to comfort you. Who is supportive to you or in everything you are trying to do. Who knows how to encourage you to be your best. Who would accept the worst of you. Forgive you And who will go through everything without giving up on u. Suc...

1. The less you share, the less likely people will be in your business. 2. You'll stop caring about people's opinion about your life. 3. You won't have to seek validation to do what feels right for you. 4. You'll attract peace into your life. You'll experience less drama, toxic energy and more time alone. 5. If everyone is your friend, you've a problem. You can't trust anyone with personal information. 6. The real flex is being private, staying low-key and telling no one about your life. 7. It'll be 10x easier to walk some paths alone to achieve your personal goals. 8. Privacy teaches you independence and how to connect with people on a deeper level. 9. Everyone leaves. You'll learn how to be alone and not feel lonely. 10. When you build in silence, people won't know what to attack. 11. People don't care so much about you. They only care on what you can offer. 12. People will want to know more about you when you talk less of yourself. 13. You...