Lovald

Do not entertain half friends … Do not live half a life  and do not die a half death If you choose silence, then be silent When you speak, do so until you are finished Do not silence yourself to say something And do not speak to be silent If you accept, then express it bluntly Do not mask it If you refuse then be clear about it  for an ambiguous refusal is but a weak acceptance Do not accept half a solution Do not believe half truths Do not dream half a dream Do not fantasize about half hopes Half a drink will not quench your thirst Half a meal will not satiate your hunger Half the way will get you no where Half an idea will bear you no results Your other half is not the one you love It is you in another time yet in the same space It is you when you are not Half a life is a life you didn't live,  A word you have not said A smile you postponed  A love you have not had A friendship you did not know To reach and not arrive… Attend only to be absent What makes you a stra...

There’s nothing for me out there. I know you haven’t explored enough yet, you haven’t turned over enough rocks within. You’re still learning what you’re made of, digging and searching for everything you admire. So, go. Go find all the treasures of yourself. Scratch and claw your way through the muck, fall in and out of love a hundred times. Go break your heart wide open and feel the sting of giving up on your wildest dreams. There’s no shame in changing directions, just never settle, never wed the status quo. I will not trail you, however. I will not club anyone over the head with my heart. I know love to be a timing thing, and we’re just two wheels who won’t always fit together. The journey you are on, I am also on. I’m just a little further along. I’ll wait here… And when you find what it is you’re looking for in yourself, bring it to me please, so I can show you how I found those things in you even before you could. And maybe then    the timing will be right for us to exist...

1. SELF LOVE Once a woman gets to love herself, an inner glow emanates from within and is reflected on her smile, eyes, facial expression, mannerisms and tone 2. FORGIVENESS Bitterness darkens the soul but forgiveness makes her shine. She has refused to give power to those who hurt her in the past 3. AWARENESS OF HER PURPOSE Once she knows her reason for existence, she radiates. Something about a woman knowing she is not a mistake but a complex, beautiful creation with a purpose makes her confidently shine  4. PROGRESS Progress in her life makes her shine. Even though she may not achieve all her goals at the set date; a woman glows different when she sees herself making progress in any area of her life.. Be it her career, finances, relationship with God, motherhood, business, romantic relationship, property acquisition, studies. This is why it is important for a woman to give herself success stories  5. THE LOVE OF HER MAN A loved up woman is easy to tell, she can't help but s...

Once, a man returned from work and found his wife cooking. She gave him a sweet loving kiss. They shared happy moments while preparing dinner together. While they were at the dinner table, the woman's cell received a message from her friend who wished her good night. The husband saw the message and assumed it was from a man. He got so upset left the dinner table without talking to his wife and went to bed without eating dinner. The woman looked at her husband with disbelief and wondered how he could be bothered by a simple message? She said to herself "this is ridiculous and I will not go after him.. He is not a kid." The woman had her meal and went to bed. She did not speak to the husband and neither did the husband speak to her.. Instead both of them moved to the furthest corner of the bed and turned their back on each other. Their night was very miserable.  At midnight, the wife got a fever and started sweating profusely. She started having difficulties wit...

1. Life doesn't wait for you to be okay. Get up everyday and keep pushing through. 2. Never force anyone to choose you. You'll learn the art to spend time alone 3. Master your emotions. A calm mind can handle any situation. 4. To avoid disappointment, you need to take people for who they're not for what you want them to be. 5. Everyone will show you who they're, just give them time 6. You're at peace with yourself when you mind your own business. 7. Ensure you take good care of yourself, if anything happens to you, the world will move on. 8. Nobody cares, work hard to get better everyday. 9. If you don't work to build your own dream, someone will hire you and give you a purpose. 10. Free yourself from the society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing. 11. 30 years is too long to sit in an office being told what to do. 12. You shouldn't frequently take advice from people who're not where you want to be in life. 13. Life's i...

A female is supposed to be a helper. In other words, a woman at the beginning was a woman who was designed by God and equipped by God to help a male fulfill the assignment that God put in his life to do(Vision). A woman is not the one who comes to destroy what the man's vision is. You don't want to marry a woman who comes to tell you how to run your life. You don't marry a man and dictates on how he is supposed to live. God said I will make for him a HELPER. Now a helper is not the one who runs the show. See, the reason marriages don't work is because we get a monster, a monster is any creature with two heads. A wise woman helps her to husband achieve....  A good woman studies her husband. She doesn't irritate him, she doesn't criticize his weaknesses and struggles. What a real woman does, she keep asking him questions. She tries to find out what his dream is, what his vision is, what his desire is... her goal is to study him! Sweetheart what are you going to do...

The seven principles for making marriage work. Now, whether you're in a relationship or not, these principles can truly transform the way you approach love and create a strong foundation for a lasting partnership. 1: Build a culture of appreciation.   It's all about expressing gratitude and acknowledging the little things your partner does. Remember, small gestures can have a big impact! 2: Nurture your friendship.  Friendship is the backbone of any successful marriage. Keep having fun together, laugh, and support each other's dreams. 3: Learn to manage conflicts effectively.  Conflict is inevitable, but how we handle it makes all the difference. Practice active listening, compromise, and always strive for understanding. 4:  Create shared meaning.  This means having shared goals, values, and traditions that you both believe in. It strengthens your connection and gives your relationship purpose. 5: Make each other feel important.   Show interest ...